To make yourself a better partner, think about your past relationships.
Other times you really like someone and it doesn’t work out, and you’ve probably wondered if there was anything you could’ve done differently.
You wonder how a woman who considers herself intelligent and may have one or several degrees, or run a successful business, or be doing very well on her chosen career path, or be a good judge of character with ‘other people’, can be caught out by a man or ‘love’.
You think to yourself ‘There’s no way in hell I’d put up with this crap from friends, family, or colleagues! You think ‘I’m in charge of people at work and so organised and in control of other areas of my life – why the hell can’t I get it together with my private life?
That and there are plenty of people who are very intelligent or even moderately intelligent but they don’t have common sense….
If you’ve seen people who seem super clever but do the oddest things that defy logic at times – that’s how a lot of people are about their relationships.
In fact, lots of people believe that love doesn’t logic.
How exactly do you go from dating someone casually to having a serious relationship with them? What qualities made you want to get serious with your date? Being self-aware of how others perceive you is a huge advantage in dating and relationships.
Dating has become very confusing now a days with all the terms available to define a relationship.
If you’re suffering from no-life syndrome, step back and ask yourself why you aren’t having fun on your own. Play the sport you like or pursue one of your interests. Insecure people push for serious relationships for the security it brings, and people can sense that.
Sure, acting unavailable might work at the casual dating stage, but what happens after that? Learn an instrument, a language, or take dancing lessons. 2) Set Boundaries Why would someone commit to you if they’re getting everything they want without the commitment?
As it turns out, going from single to being in a relationship (and maybe, sadly, back to single again) changes your life more than you may suspect.
This post goes out to anyone who may have been affected by the harsh realities of #22.